Bonita Valley Community Church

Ready Or Not — Relationally | Part 1: People Prep

November 1, 2026

Ephesians 4:1–3 (NLT)

Therefore I, a prisoner for serving the Lord, beg you to lead a life worthy of your calling, for you have been called by God. 2 Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other's faults because of your love. 3 Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace.


GOD'S — IS WHY MY RELATIONAL PREP MATTERS


Romans 12:18 (NIV)

… as far as it depends on you live, at peace with everyone.


I AM — RIDICULOUSLY RESPONSIBLE FOR —

THE ME WHO SHOWS UP IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP!


WHO WILL I BE SEEING — IN THE DAYS AND WEEKS AHEAD?

WHO WILL THEY BE SEEING — WHEN THEY SEE ME?


JESUS-LIKE QUALITIES ME —

FOR MY RELATIONAL PART


Ephesians 4:2 (NLT)

Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other's faults because of your love.


FIRST WE EXPERIENCE — FROM JESUS

THEN WE EXPRESS — TO OTHERS


1 John 4:19 (MSG)
First we were loved, now we love. He (Jesus) loved us first.


JESUS-LIKE


Philippians 2:5–8 (NLT)

You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had … when he appeared in human form, he humbled himself in obedience to God …


JESUS-LIKE


Matthew 26:53 (NLT)

“Don't you realize that I could ask my Father for thousands of angels to protect us, and he would send them instantly?”


JESUS-LIKE


Proverbs 12:16 (MSG) — Fools have short fuses and explode all too quickly; the prudent quietly shrug off insults.


JESUS-LIKE LOVE — MAKES FOR OTHERS


Ephesians 4:2 (NLT)

… making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.



KEEP MAKING THE — TO LOVE LIKE JESUS


Ephesians 4:3 (NLT)

Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace.


(Message Bible)

... Do this with discipline — not in fits and starts, but steadily, pouring yourselves out for each other in acts of love.


RELATIONSHIPS AREN'T BUILT ON —

HOW WE TREAT PEOPLE ONCE IN A WHILE


THEY'RE BUILT ON HOW WE TREAT THEM — OVER TIME


LET'S START TODAY — WITH THE VERY NEXT PERSON WE MEET —

WHO NEEDS TO EXPERIENCE JESUS — THROUGH US!

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